03 April, 2010

friendship or relationship??

Friendship and love both are so dissimilar and both are so similar to each other. A lover is considered the bestfriend in our life. We shared most of our thoughts with our romantic partner. Then why cannot a good friend become a good lover? or is that possible to do successfully?

Many of us are worried that by romantically involving with our friend we may loose our friend and never gain a lover.

What are the differences between friendship and love?
When do we call a person our friend?
When do we call someone a very good friend?

To call anybody a good friend we must have the qualities in the frienship -
- if we care for a person
- if we are always ready to help that person
- if we share most of our thoughts with a person
- we are always sure that our friend understand whe we act in a certain way
- we can always count upon our good friends in an emergency

Are these the quality of a good romantic relationship?

In romantic love we are physically attracted to our beloved, our beloved is also physically attracted toward us. That may not happen in friendship. Most of romantic relationship happen because there is something in the other person that magnetically draw us to them that does not happen in friendship.

Friendship and romantic relationship look to be very much alike each other, but in reality they are different. If you wish to have your friend as your romantic partner you need to think again. You may be about to loose a good friend, you may not get a romantic relationship in bargain but only pain may result from this. Better to avoid it.

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